I think you may have two issues here.
1) In order to use Windows Authentication the two computers have to be
members of the same domain or trusted domains. I suspect your two computers
are not members of some shared domain. Perhaps I'm wrong though. Are you
using the same domain login on both computers? If your computers are not
members of a domain, you can make the Windows user name the same on both
computers, and have the same password. Then you can use Windows
Authentication. (This is the same way you can connect to a printer on a home
network.)
2) Yes, you should have a login at the SQL Server on the XP Pro workstation.
Add domain_name\GSchenck as a login, not computer_name\GSchenck. Install
SSMS Express locally and use Object Explorer/Security/Logins to create a
login.
Or you can setup a SQL Server login.
I suspect you haven't followed all this but I'm not sure which part might be
causing you trouble.

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Grant Schenck - 19 Nov 2008 13:13 GMT
Thanks for responding!
Both computers are NOT members of a domain.

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>I think you may have two issues here.
> 1) In order to use Windows Authentication the two computers have to be
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>> Thanks!